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King Charles' love life: his dating history before marrying Queen Camilla explained

Meet the women who turned King Charles' head, including Princess Diana, before he settled down with Queen Camilla


Split image of Prince Charles and Princess Diana & Queen Camilla and King Charles
Matthew Moore
Online News Writer & Diversity and Inclusion Lead
Updated: On 2 April 2024
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Although King Charles and Queen Camilla are soulmates, the pair both enjoyed several romances with others before they finally met in the 1970s and started officially dating each other following the royal's divorce from Princess Diana.

Charles was reportedly encouraged by his great-uncle Lord Mountbatten "to sow his wild oats", and enjoyed a string of romances with reportedly more than 20 mostly titled, aristocratic girls – dubbed "Charlie's Angels" by the press – before his marriage to Lady Diana Spencer in 1981. He planned to wed by the age of 30 but acknowledged the challenges of finding a suitable wife.

"This is obviously very difficult because you've got to remember that when you marry, in my position, you're going to marry somebody who perhaps one day is going to become Queen," he said in his first TV interview with the BBC in 1969.

Meet the women who turned the King's head before he walked down the aisle with Camilla in 2005...

Lucia Santa Cruz

Lucia Santa Cruz and Prince Charles in the back of a car© Thomas Abrahams/ANL/Shutterstock
Lucia has been described as the monarch's "first love"

Lucia Santa Cruz, the daughter of a former Chilean ambassador to London was believed to be the royal's first girlfriend, with the couple meeting while Charles studied at Trinity College, Cambridge. Five years older than Charles, she was "the first real love of his life", according to his biographer Sally Bedell Smith. It's not known why it ended, but Lucia apparently first introduced Charles to Camilla Shand.

Davina Sheffield

Charles and Davina Sheffield in Windsor Great Park
The royal pictured with his former girlfriend, Davina Sheffield, at Smith's Lawn

Davina Sheffield, the granddaughter of the 1st Lord McGowan and cousin of Samantha Cameron, was romantically linked to Charles in 1976, but according to royal author Penny Junor, the relationship was "killed stone dead" when an ex-boyfriend talked about his affair with Davina, after which she was no longer considered a suitable candidate. 

Lady Jane Wellesley

Prince Charles walks next to his then-girlfriend Lady Jane Wellesley© Getty
Prince Charles walks next to his then-girlfriend Lady Jane Wellesley

The Prince went on to date the daughter of the 8th Duke of Wellington, Lady Jane Wellesley, in 1973, blaming the intense scrutiny of the media when they parted ways a year later. However, when asked if there was going to be an engagement announcement, Lady Jane had snapped: "Do you honestly believe I want to be Queen?" 

Lady Amanda Knatchbull

Lady Amanda Knatchbull wears a spotty blouse© Getty
Lady Amanda Knatchbull, the granddaughter of Lord Mountbatten

Still on the hunt for a bride, Charles is said to have proposed to Lady Amanda Knatchbull, the granddaughter of Lord Mountbatten and his second cousin, in 1980, with his interest first forming in 1974. According to royal author Robert Lacey, the Prince was "very fond" of her, and "over the years, the two cousins did grow close, developing a mutual respect and friendship that has lasted to the present day". Prince Philip was reportedly very keen for the union to work. It was, however, bad timing. Shortly beforehand, Amanda had lost her younger brother Nicholas and her grandfather in an IRA assassination, and reportedly could not reconcile herself to the idea of being so firmly in the royal spotlight.

Sabrina Guinness

Prince Charles and Sabrina Guinness enjoy a date at the Guards Polo Club© Getty
Prince Charles and Sabrina Guinness enjoy a date

The brewing dynasty heiress and It-girl of her generation, Sabrina Guinness, enchanted Charles in 1979. He was said to be besotted with her, to the point where he even took her to Balmoral to meet the family. Princess Margaret described the relationship as "serious", but Charles is said to have brought it to an abrupt end after nine months because the Queen was unhappy about Sabrina's "racy" past. Described as Charles's "liveliest" girlfriend, Sabrina went on to be romantically linked to Mick Jagger, David Bowie and Jack Nicholson, and married the playwright Tom Stoppard in 2014.

Lady Sarah Spencer

Prince Charles stands next to his then-girlfriend and sister of Lady Diana Spencer, Lady Sarah Spencer© Getty
Prince Charles stands next to his then-girlfriend and sister of Lady Diana Spencer, Lady Sarah Spencer

The press also played a part in the demise of Charles's brief relationship with Lady Sarah Spencer, Diana's elder sister, in 1977, when she reportedly talked of her royal romance with two reporters, telling them she wouldn’t marry him "if he were the dustman or the King of England".

According to sources, the relationship fizzled out shortly after Charles saw the article and told her: "You've just done something incredibly stupid." She later took credit for introducing him to Diana, saying: "I'm Cupid."

Princess Diana

King Charles in military uniform stood with Princess Diana in a wedding dress© David Levenson
Diana became Charles's first bride

Charles's most-famous romance was with the late Princess of Wales who he first met in 1977 before the couple properly began dating each other in 1979. Things got serious for the couple when the then heir to the throne invited Diana onboard the royal yacht Britannia and subsequently invited her down to Balmoral to meet his family, including the late Queen.

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The pair were engaged in February 1981, walking down the aisle five months later. During their marriage, the couple welcomed two children, Prince William and Prince Harry, however, cracks eventually began to show in their relationship. In part to their age gap and infidelities on both sides, the pair announced their separation in 1992 before divorcing in 1996. Diana was tragically killed in a car crash in Paris a year later.  

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